Choosing an engagement ring is more than a milestone—it’s a moment filled with love, excitement, and personal meaning. Whether you’re planning a surprise proposal or selecting the ring together, this decision deserves thoughtful attention. At VAHÉ Jewellery, we believe that every couple deserves a ring that tells their unique story.
This guide will walk you through everything you need to know to pick the perfect engagement ring—from style and setting to diamond quality and timing—so you can make a confident and meaningful choice.
1. Begin with Meaning, Not Marketing
Before diving into styles and technicalities, start with the emotion. Is your partner drawn to classic elegance, modern simplicity, or bold artistry?
The engagement ring should reflect their personality and your journey together. Don’t just follow fleeting trends—select a piece that will hold its value sentimentally and aesthetically through the years.
At VAHÉ Jewellery, we help you choose (or create) a ring that feels like it was made just for them—because often, it is.

2. Understand the Key Components of a Ring
A well-designed ring blends aesthetics, durability, and symbolism. Here are the essential components to consider:
- Centre Stone – Usually a diamond, but sapphires, moissanites, and other gemstones are also popular.
- Setting – The structure that holds the stone.
- Band – The ring’s shank that wraps around the finger.
- Details – Side stones, halos, or pavé diamonds that enhance visual impact.
If you're unsure what appeals to your partner, take inspiration from our recently purchased engagement rings. These represent real choices from real love stories, offering a beautiful glimpse into styles Australians are loving right now.
3. Select a Ring Style That Speaks to You
Solitaire
Simple, timeless, and elegant. A solitaire puts the spotlight on the centre stone and is ideal for minimalists or lovers of classic design.
Halo
A circle of smaller diamonds surrounds the centre stone, giving the illusion of a larger gem and maximum sparkle.
Three-Stone
Each stone represents the past, present, and future—a symbolic and balanced design.
Vintage-Inspired
Designs with milgrain detailing, filigree, and hand-engraved patterns that bring antique beauty to life.
Contemporary
Geometric lines, asymmetric designs, or unconventional settings ideal for a modern, artistic aesthetic.
Need visual guidance? Our sample engagement ring collection showcases a wide variety of styles to help you visualise what resonates best.
4. Demystifying the 4Cs of Diamonds
The 4Cs—Cut, Colour, Clarity, and Carat—help determine the quality and value of a diamond. Understanding them helps you make an informed decision.
Cut
The cut is about how well the diamond reflects light. A well-cut diamond sparkles brilliantly and can even make it appear larger.
Colour
Graded from D (colourless) to Z (light yellow/brown), the closer to D, the whiter the diamond. G–H range often offers the best balance of appearance and value.
Clarity
Most diamonds contain tiny imperfections called inclusions. Choose a stone with clarity graded VS1–SI1 for a clean appearance without a premium price tag.
Carat
Carat is the diamond’s weight, not its visible size. A slightly smaller carat with better cut often looks more stunning than a larger but poorly cut stone.
5. Lifestyle Matters More Than You Think
Your partner’s lifestyle should influence your ring choice. If they work with their hands, play sport regularly, or lead an active lifestyle, consider:
- A lower-profile setting
- A protective bezel design
- Harder metals like platinum or 18k gold
Choosing a ring that fits into daily life ensures both comfort and longevity. At VAHÉ Jewellery, our experts will guide you to designs that balance practicality with beauty.
6. Choose the Right Metal for the Band
Each metal offers a distinct look and feel:
- Yellow Gold – Warm, classic, and flattering on most skin tones.
- White Gold – Sleek and modern, often preferred for a contemporary feel.
- Rose Gold – Romantic and feminine with a soft pink hue.
- Platinum – Durable and naturally hypoallergenic. An investment in strength and longevity.
Explore our ready-to-ship engagement rings to see these metal options in action and find combinations that complement different diamond cuts.
7. Go Bespoke with a Custom Design
There’s nothing more personal than a custom-designed engagement ring. From sentimental engraving to selecting a specific gemstone, bespoke designs allow your love story to shape the jewellery itself.
At VAHÉ Jewellery, our custom process is seamless and collaborative—from initial sketches to final polishing. Many clients begin by exploring a piece from our sample engagement ring collection and adapting it to suit their exact vision.
Custom doesn’t have to mean complicated—it just means meaningful.
8. Find the Right Fit
Sizing matters. Too tight, and it’s uncomfortable. Too loose, and you risk losing it.
If you're planning a surprise, try borrowing a ring your partner wears on their ring finger, or enlist the help of a close friend. After the proposal, adjustments can be made—but for intricate designs, resizing can be limited.
We offer complimentary sizing consultations at VAHÉ Jewellery to ensure your ring is perfect from day one.
9. Budget Without Compromise
There’s no rule that says you must spend three months’ salary. What matters most is thoughtfulness and quality.
Smart ways to maximise value:
- Opt for a 0.90ct stone instead of 1.00ct—it looks nearly identical but is far more affordable.
- Choose a G–H colour grade instead of D–F—you’ll hardly notice the difference.
- Consider a ready-to-ship engagement ring for exceptional value and quick turnaround.
At VAHÉ Jewellery, we believe the perfect ring fits your budget just as well as it fits your hand.
10. Timing Is Everything
Rings that are custom-made can take 4–6 weeks, sometimes longer depending on complexity. If you’ve got a proposal date in mind—like a holiday, birthday, or romantic trip—don’t wait until the last minute.
Need something sooner? Our range of ready-to-ship engagement rings includes handcrafted pieces available for immediate delivery.
11. Protect Your Investment with Insurance
Insuring your engagement ring is a smart move. Whether it’s lost, damaged, or stolen, having cover ensures peace of mind.
All VAHÉ Jewellery pieces come with professional valuations, making it easy to add the ring to your home contents insurance or purchase separate jewellery insurance.
12. The Proposal: Make It Count
The ring sets the tone, but the moment creates the memory. Whether you go big or keep it intimate, make it personal.

We offer elegant ring boxes and presentation packaging that add to the impact. The moment your partner opens that box should take their breath away—not just because of the ring, but because it reflects everything you share.
And if you’re still browsing? Our recently purchased engagement rings might give you the inspiration you need to make the perfect choice.
13. After the “Yes” – What Comes Next?
- Schedule a follow-up to have the ring cleaned and sized if needed.
- Discuss your future wedding bands and how they’ll complement the engagement ring.
- Plan for occasional inspections to keep the setting secure and the stone sparkling.
Many couples return to VAHÉ Jewellery to design matching wedding bands, upgrade their ring years later, or even create anniversary jewellery. Your story doesn’t stop with the proposal—and neither should your jewellery journey.
14. Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What if I pick the wrong ring?
A: Many of our customers propose with a sample engagement ring, then design the final version together. It adds excitement and ensures your partner gets exactly what they want.
Q: Do I need to buy the engagement ring and wedding band together?
A: Not necessarily. But if you’d like the rings to match perfectly, consider planning them as a set.
Q: Can you create a custom ring based on a design I saw online?
A: Absolutely. Bring us the inspiration, and we’ll make it truly yours with the craftsmanship you’d expect from VAHÉ Jewellery.
The Ring Is Just the Beginning
The perfect engagement ring doesn’t come from a big-box store—it comes from understanding your partner, trusting your instincts, and choosing a jeweller that puts care and craftsmanship first.
At VAHÉ Jewellery, we’re not just selling rings. We’re helping couples capture moments of love, commitment, and forever in a single, stunning piece.
Whether you’re ready to propose this weekend or just beginning the journey, our curated collections are designed to meet you where you are:
- 💍 Recently Purchased Engagement Rings – Explore what real couples are loving
- ✨ Sample Engagement Rings – Test styles and build your dream ring
- 🚚 Ready-to-Ship Engagement Rings – No waiting, just perfect timing
Let the story begin—with a ring that says it all.